We see them all around us. Some are strong and charismatic, others are quiet and kind. Yet at the end of the day, they all have one thing in common that makes them stand out above the rest. They inspire us – to do more, to dream more, to learn more, to become more. They are leaders.
In today’s world, we all have instances when it is our turn to lead. Whether it be in our homes, at the office, or in the community, there is always that crucial moment when we must decide whether we will lead by intimidation or by example. The latter is the mark of a true and effective leader.
While many may seem born to lead, we all have the capacity to do so. It is a conscious decision to let wisdom and kindness rule. Our world’s most effective leaders tend to have many of the same distinct qualities in common. Here are the top five:
Honesty/Integrity: Honesty is more than just speaking the truth. It encompasses living in such a way that your words and actions are aligned. When those around you witness your commitment to honesty in all aspects of your life, the bonds of trust are formed.
Communication: The ability to come up with remarkable ideas is great indeed, but if you can’t convey your vision to those you interact with then those ideas become fruitless. Good communication is essential for common goals to be accomplished. Great leaders convey information in a clear and concise manner.
Empathy: Dale Carnegie, a master of leadership, said:
“Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.”
Individuals who truly value the people around them will find that they have earned their loyalty for a lifetime.
Positive Attitude: There is truth in the statement “you reap what you sow.” Great outlooks in life are contagious. Not only that, but we tend to be drawn to individuals who exude positive energy. Want to be a good leader? Be positive.
Confidence: Some people appear to have an inordinate amount of confidence, but the reality is that for the majority of society confidence is a learned trait. It takes a conscious effort, but you can teach yourself to be confident. Confidence (not to be confused with arrogance) in yourself allows others to confident in your abilities.